There is a son named Dong Jie who is genetically selected for the advantages of his parents, and netizens only for the shortcomings.

There is a genetic son named Dong Jie, who specializes in the strengths of his parents, and netizens who only choose the shortcomings

If it is said that the most popular and most praised “Star II” is not Dong Jie and Pan Yueming The son of Dingding is none other than that. 

Although their marriage ended in divorce, and they have gone through various lawsuits and public opinions, it is deeply regrettable. 

However, Dingding, the son of the two of them, has inherited the good looks of both parents, and has won the love and pursuit of many netizens only by appearance. 

In fact, it is not surprising that Dingding can have such an outstanding appearance. After all, Dong Jie was once a goddess in many people’s minds, and Pan Yueming was also a smashing idol drama niche when he was young. 

Ding Ding is now 12 years old, with fair skin, exquisite features, and very tall height. He stands out among his peers. 

Perhaps living with Dong Jie, her temperament is as quiet as Dong Jie, and she does not eat the dust of the world. Now Dingding is the “second generation star with the highest appearance” recognized by netizens unanimously. 

Seeing that Dingding has completely inherited the excellent appearance genes of his parents, many people may think that this is the case for the children of celebrities. In fact, it is not. Some recognized big beauties give birth to very ordinary children. 

For example, the daughter of Kim Hee-sun, the “national goddess” of South Korea, has very small eyes and a “slumped nose”, and there is no trace of her mother’s beauty. 

There is also the daughter of Zhang Ting, a famous “goddess of dimples” in our country, who has never inherited her mother’s dimples and exquisite features. 

Surprisingly, there is no similarity between her appearance and her father’s appearance. Every time I see the photos of the children of these celebrities, many netizens have expressed emotion, “Is there any shortcomings?”

In fact, everyone recalls whether there are parents who are outstanding in their lives. An example of a child who came out looking very ordinary? 

Studies have shown that if both alleles are dominant, there will be obvious genetic effects. 

Of course, when dominant and recessive appear at the same time, they usually show dominant traits. Next, let us take a look at which aspects of parental genes have a certain chance of inheritance to children! 

Parental gene pair Which aspects of the child will have a certain chance of heredity? 

1. Height

Height is the highest in genetic inheritance of parents. According to research, nearly 70% of the height of a child is affected by the parents’ genes, and only 30% can pass acquired efforts. 

In 70%, parents basically have half of them. In other words, if the parents are not short in height, the children will not be short when they grow up. If the parents are not tall, then the child will not be able to have a high height. 

However, nowadays, prenatal and postnatal care is emphasized, and parents pay attention to the nutritional balance of their children, so there is still a lot of room for a breakthrough in the 30% acquired. 

As long as you pay attention to supplement nutrition, maintain sufficient exercise, pay attention to rest, etc., the height of the child will not be shorter than that of the parent. 

2. IQ

Experts generally believe that the probability of a child’s IQ being inherited by the mother’s gene can reach 50% to 60%. In other words, if the mother is smart, the child is usually not stupid. 

Especially boys, IQ will be higher. 

Of course, innate factors are important, but acquired education will also affect a child’s IQ. Only by adopting scientific and effective education methods for children can children become smarter. 

3. Personality

Many experts have pointed out that the character of a child is generally affected by the father’s genetic gene, and in addition to congenital genetic factors, the character development of the child during the growth process will also be affected by the father. . 

From the conclusions of experts, we can know the importance of fathers in the growth of children. Fathers should be involved in cultivating the good character of the child, accompany the child to grow up, and ensure that the child develops a good character. 

4. Appearance

In terms of skin color, if the father’s skin color is darker and the mother’s skin color is very white, then the child’s skin color may be in the middle value, or it may be biased toward the mother’s skin color. The most important thing is to see which parent has the stronger gene. 

The five sense organs are mainly based on the distinction between dominant and recessive. There is no saying which one is completely inherited. For example, if parents’ eyes are very small, then the child’s eyes will not be very likely. 

Parents have high noses, and children’s noses are usually not flat noses. Even if they are flat noses when they are young, their noses are likely to become flat when they grow up. 

Genetic genetics is a very complex existence. Parents with excellent appearance may not be able to give birth to children with the same appearance. 

In order to increase the chance of a child having an excellent appearance, whether it is during pregnancy or during pregnancy, if you cannot stay away from tobacco and alcohol, unhealthy diet, irregular work and rest, etc., it will affect the appearance and health of the child. 

Besides the influence of parents’ genetic genes, the acquired growth environment, living habits, eating habits, routines of work and rest, etc. cannot be ignored. In order to make children better, prenatal and postnatal care is something every parent must pay attention to! 

Do your children look like their parents? What is your opinion on genetic inheritance? Welcome to leave a message to share! Pregnant mothers want to get along with their mother-in-law, so you must pay attention to these things, otherwise the family is easy to get along.

Since ancient times, the way of getting along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a major problem in life. Even if the mother-in-law liked the daughter-in-law very much at first, it is not surprising that the two women have conflicts because of different personalities or different thoughts after getting along for a long time. It is not a simple matter to have a harmonious family relationship in a short time, especially after the daughter-in-law has a child, the stability of the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is even more challenging. 

However, in order to focus on the overall situation, whether it is a daughter-in-law or a mother-in-law, both parties must give in and pay attention to some key ways of handling things in life. Today I want to start the topic with this and discuss how the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be more stable after having children in the family. 

My friend A Qing is a girl born in the 90s. Like me, she started her own family in her hometown within two years after graduating from university. Fortunately, A Qing and her husband have a new house of their own near where they work. In other words, A Qing and her husband can spend more time with each other, and their home life is not that formal. 

However, Qing’s peaceful and peaceful life did not last long. This unfettered life soon ushered in a turning point, and A Qing gave birth to a son for the family. As a retired older mother-in-law, it is a lifetime thing to feel sorry for her son. Therefore, she took the initiative to ask Ying to help the two couples to take care of the newborn child, and said that she would love her grandson well, and the two couples can go to work with peace of mind. 

It cannot be denied that the arrival of her mother-in-law has shared a lot of housework for A Qing, and at the same time has relieved A Qing’s pressure on taking care of the children. However, when Aqing’s safety zone was broken, Aqing found it difficult to achieve harmony with her mother-in-law. Even if there is a husband who is mediating and reconciling it, A Qing also finds that the contradictions and conflicts between herself and her mother-in-law are really insurmountable. 

There are many disputes between the two, no matter which side it is, an indelible shadow will be left in the heart. Xiaojing’s husband was of no avail, so she chose to escape in the end. For a time, the atmosphere within the family became more and more solemn, and the relationship between family members also became tense. 

for more How should we handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? 

1. Do not overly interfere with mother-in-law’s childcare

In terms of childcare, the older generations have experience in caring for children, and are more willing to stick to their previous parenting experience to take care of children. However, young parents are advancing with the trend of the times, and they also accept the influence of new ideas. The conflict between old and new ideas is reflected in the different ways of raising children. When the mother-in-law takes care of the children on behalf of the younger generations, the younger generations will often give various pointers and even accusations on the mother-in-law’s handling of the children because of stress. A negative treatment like this can easily alienate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. 

Then, if the mother-in-law is willing to take the child, the daughter-in-law must first have a grateful heart and know how to be considerate of the mother-in-law’s hard work. Correspondingly, in order to better educate children, Bao Ma can actively communicate with her mother-in-law, and jointly draw up a blueprint for taking care of her children. When problems and conflicts arise between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Bao Ma can also presciently propose to her husband to be the mediator of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in time. 

2. Less gossip and more work

For mothers-in-law, they must be their sons most distressed. Although the daughter-in-law is already an important member of the family when she gets married, the mother-in-law can also be a daughter-in-law and treat her half of her daughter as a matter of course. But as long as problems and conflicts arise, the tense relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can easily break. The son was born in October of pregnancy. If someone speaks badly about the son in front of him, the mother-in-law’s first reaction is of course to protect the shortcomings; in other words, if you want to maintain a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, as a wife, Bao’s mother will always It’s all about supporting your husband, and don’t always express your dissatisfaction with your husband and wife relationship in front of your mother-in-law. 

To gain the respect and support of the mother-in-law, the married daughter-in-law must learn to respect the mother-in-law, take care of the mother-in-law’s face, learn to be thrifty and manage the family, and the family relationship will naturally be exchanged for the mother-in-law’s Gratitude and support. 

3. Keep a distance with her mother-in-law wisely

After marrying into a family, some women are always anxious to please their mother-in-law and establish a good mother-in-law relationship in order to obtain a good family relationship. . However, there is an old Chinese saying that is very good, but haste is not enough. Feelings cannot be achieved overnight. To establish an intimate relationship, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law need to constantly adapt in life, in order to live for a long time without getting bored, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It’s better to keep a distance between them. In doing so, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can get along more harmoniously, and family life will be much happier. 

Today’s topic is over here. How did you build a good mother-in-law relationship?

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