The three types of parents are easy to raise “home children”, which is not good for their children’s physical and mental health, but they don’t know it
Finalized: Su Zihou
Earlier, related children in China The agency conducted an observation on children’s outdoor activity environment, and the data showed that a quarter of the urban children became “home children.”
The so-called “home boy” refers to young people who like to stay at home and are addicted to the Internet all day long. These children don’t like sports, have no other hobbies, and don’t have time to learn. They give all the best time to the virtual network.
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In fact, the emergence of “house children” has a certain relationship with family education. Many young parents usually I am busy with business. At the weekend, I want to take a good rest, so I choose to “stay” at home with the child, and slowly and invisibly make the child a “house boy”.
Case: Childhood has little fun, and children become “head-down people”
With the improvement of living standards, electronic technology has penetrated into our lives, and more and more people cannot do without the Internet.
Ms. Wu’s child Lele is 8 years old this year. Such an old child should have been the most active and active, but recently, Ms. Wu found that Lele has been at home all the time. Watching cartoons means playing games with grandparents’ mobile phones.
Ms. Wu was very worried. After talking to a few friends of Bao Ma, she found that most of the children were like this.
Ms. Wu remembered her childhood, either going uphill to climb trees, or fishing in the water, playing peekaboo with friends during the day, and counting the stars in the sky with her parents at night. But now, children’s fun seems to be only electronic products, for a long time. Lower your head and immerse yourself in your own world, isolate everything from the outside world, stay away from nature, and become a “bow-headed clan”, and step by step become the “house boy” that people often say.
Children are influenced by their parents and stay away from them and naturally become “home children”.
Parents are the children’s first teachers, and in the process of getting along forever, the words and deeds of the parents also affect the children at all times.
◆ Parents themselves are very “home”
With the rapid development of technology, which brings convenience to modern society, it also seriously affects the lifestyle of young people.
Under the influence of the Internet, we can solve many daily trips without going out, such as shopping, ordering takeout, etc. This kind of lifestyle without going out is also subtly affecting the next generation.
Therefore, if the parents themselves are very “home” and rely on the Internet for everything, under such precepts and deeds, the children will naturally be deeply affected.
◆Electronic happiness for parents
The development focus of modern technology is more and more inclined to electronic entertainment. No matter where you are or what you are doing, there are many people who look down at their mobile phones. Our generation of parents is the first leader in making happiness electronic.
This behavior of parents also subtly affects children’s attitudes toward electronic products. Sometimes, there are signs that blue is better than blue, and they are even more obsessed with electronic products than their parents.
◆ Parents use electronic products to divert their children’s attention
Many parents have this behavior: When the child is crying, the parent will take out the mobile phone to emit sound to attract the child’s attention, and this Methods are generally very effective.
However, although this kind of behavior can make parents breathe, it can easily cause children to indulge in electronic products. The “house boy” goes further and further on the road.
What is the harm of “home boy” behavior to children
• Loss of eyesight
The first thing that “home boy” behavior affects is the child’s vision.
Long-term staring at electronic products will make the eyes feel tired, dry, and painful in severe cases. The most important thing is that children’s eyesight will gradually decline as a result, even at a young age. Can’t see things far away.
• Poor physical fitness
People who are addicted to electronic products are often lazy, staying at home for a long time, and are reluctant to engage in any outdoor activities. Due to lack of exercise, their physical fitness will naturally deteriorate and their physical strength cannot keep up. , Insufficient energy, the immune system will be reduced, and it will be easy to get sick.
Therefore, for the sake of their children’s health, parents should also help their children stay away from electronic products.
• Personality becomes more and more withdrawn
Long time obsessed with electronic products actually has a certain impact on the child’s personality. Of course, this impact may not be visible to the naked eye and difficult to detect, but after the parents react, It may be qualitative.
If a child spends a lot of time and energy on electronic products and rarely communicates with people around him, his personality will become more and more withdrawn, and it is often difficult to integrate into society when he grows up , If the situation is serious, it may even be socially fearful. The baby has several intellectual leaps within 1 year old During the period, if there are four manifestations, it implies that the brain is well developed
Parents want their children to be smart. In fact, it can be seen before the age of one. This requires parents to take good care of their development during this period.
Writer: Wang Xiaoming
Editor: Liu Yizhi
Finalized: Su After the child
After the baby is born, parents will not only pay attention to the growth and development, but also pay attention to the intelligence development. After all, every parent hopes that the child will have superior intelligence.
According to research, the weight of the brain of a baby increases rapidly every day from birth to 1 year old, and the growth rate of brain cells can reach 200,000 per minute within 6 months.
The baby’s intellectual development has 8 leap periods within one year of age. As long as you grasp it, your baby’s intelligence will not be bad in the future.
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Several intellectual leap periods before the baby is 1 year old
1. The first intellectual leap period: 5th week
At this time, the various organs of the baby’s body are developing rapidly When mature, all the sensory nerves have begun to work, gradually crying, crying, and smiling to express their happiness, and also observe the surrounding food, and if there is a change, they will give obvious reactions and can also recognize The smell of mother.
2. The first intellectual leap period: 8th week
At this time, the baby’s eyes are able to coordinate movement, can follow the changes of objects and move their eyes, and begin to discover the world around them It is made up of moving objects; the tightly held hands will start to relax slowly, and will grab clothes and hair.
3. The third intellectual leap period: Week 12
At this time, the baby’s movements will become more and more flexible, and he can slowly control his behavior. When others talk, they sometimes stick out their tongues playfully, or push their butts when changing their diapers.
4. The fourth intellectual leap period: the 19th week
At this time, the baby’s hands are more flexible and can grab things, rotate or flip objects, and watch the objects move. Throughout the process, I touch the object with my hand or put it in the mouth for “exploration”; I will also try to move by myself and feel curious about everything around.
5. The fifth intellectual leap period: 26th week
At this time, the baby gradually understands the cause and effect between things, and understands that some things can be put into another. The most interesting thing is to take things out and put them in.
6. The sixth intellectual leap period: 37th week
At this time, the baby starts to learn to classify things abstractly, understands that dogs barking “barking” and “meowing” calling cats, start Use logical thinking like an adult.
7. The seventh intellectual leap period: Week 46
At this time, the baby starts to know that things must be done in a sequence, and knows that to complete something, you need to follow the order, especially like By playing games by themselves, they can also play some toys in new ways.
8. The eighth period of intellectual leap: 55th week
At this time, the baby’s discovery sequence can be decided by himself, or he can make a plan according to his wishes, knowing himself Required.
How can parents help Does the child grasp the intellectual development before 1 year old?
1. Learn the correct guidance
In the growth and development stage of the baby, if parents want their baby’s intellectual development to get better and better, they need to do a good job of guidance, such as allowing the child to touch various objects to exercise The development of their perception abilities.
2. Pay attention to nutritional supplements
Baby’s brain development is inseparable from adequate nutritional supplements. According to research, it has been found that the energy consumption of the baby’s brain can reach half of the whole body. There are several types of nutrition that need to be supplemented:
Sugars, such as unprocessed staple foods such as rice, millet, oats, and buckwheat, can provide energy for brain cells; Proteins, such as eggs, peanuts, sesame, etc., form nerves The main substance of inter-connection; fatty acids, such as walnuts, fish, mushrooms, etc., are important components of brain cells.
3. Ensure adequate sleep
Maintaining adequate sleep allows the brain to get adequate rest, maintain normal functions, complete better development, and regulate the body to maintain normal growth and development.
Extended reading: 4 manifestations before 1 year old , Implying that the brain is well developed
1, all aspects of development are relatively early
Baby’s development is a certain regularity, this is a gradual process, most of the children’s development time is about the same , Some babies are born earlier, so their brain development is relatively more complete, then this type of baby is smarter.
For example, a baby usually learns to crawl in 8~10 months, but your baby learns it early, it means that the baby’s brain is more fully developed and has better balance. This is a kind of smart children which performed.
2. Stronger imitating ability
When the baby is about 3 months old, he will start to observe the food around him, and start to imitate others within 1 year old, such as angry Looks, dancing movements, etc., the earlier the ability to imitate and the stronger the ability to imitate, there is a certain connection with the development of IQ, because imitation has a certain degree of difficulty and is the basis for a person to learn knowledge, understand things, and master skills.
3. Development of Attention and Observation
Generally, babies around 1 year old or older, their attention will be more concentrated than usual, and their observation skills will be more detailed.
For example, if Mommy changes her hairstyle, the baby can still recognize it; it can recognize things at home, etc., which shows that the child’s intelligence is well developed.
4. Strong curiosity
Baby around one year old has a certain degree of autonomy, and has a strong curiosity about the surrounding environment, no matter what it is, it will feel very Fresh, you want to take it in your hand to see, play, etc., or just put it in your mouth and taste it.
In addition, the baby will take the initiative to play with some toys, shaking, shaking, etc., in the eyes of parents, it is sabotage, but in fact, this is only a behavior for them to understand and explore things, and it is also a manifestation of cleverness.