“Stingy Babies” sewed their pants and became popular with their skillful actions, making netizens laugh: Another three years of sewing and mending?
Diligence and thrift are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. Some people even use it as a family motto, but it is now greatly reduced by the younger generation.
In fact, this has a lot to do with the different times that everyone lives in, especially the children nowadays, all of them are babies in the family. Parents give priority to all good treatments for their children. I don’t know how to make firewood, rice, oil and salt at all.
As a result, diligent and thrifty babies seem to be very rare. They are not only a beautiful landscape in life, but their behavior is also worthy of parents’ reflection.
“Stingy baby” unexpectedly became popular because of sewing pants for himself< p>There is a “stoopy baby” on the Internet. Although this baby is not very old, netizens all say that the phrase “sewing and mending for three years” is simply suitable for this “stoopy baby”. Up.
It turned out that this little guy is trying to sew The pants, holding the needle and thread in his hand, seem to have a magical contrast, but a closer look shows that the child is not only adept in his movements, but also has very fine stitches, which is quite the demeanor of the grandmother helping to sew the clothes.
The appearance of the little guy directly amused the netizens. Netizens all said that this kid is too sensible, unlike his own children who wait for it all day long. How can there be such a realization? Some netizens also expressed concern about the safety of their children, no matter how they should take it off and make up for it.
Anyway, the child is so small It is not easy to have this performance at an age, and to another extent, I think it is also a manifestation of high intelligence.
Children’s intelligence is reflected at the fingertips.
Child psychologist Piaget once said: “The flower of wisdom is open at the fingertips.”
This kind of needlework belongs to fine movement Within the category, the fine movement is different from the big movement. It considers the coordination ability of the child’s brain and hands, and they are in a proportional relationship.
The more children can do their needlework well, the stronger their hand coordination ability will be, and it will also promote brain development. Therefore, we should also encourage children to engage in this type of activity.
Children with strong hands-on skills will always bring surprises to the family.
In the opinion of some parents, children with strong hands-on skills can be equated with the Huskies of “dismantling the house” by rounding them up. They do not move on weekdays. To move this is to move that, which adds a lot of trouble to oneself.
But we only see the bad side , But I didn’t find that they would often bring us surprises. After all, children with rich hands-on ability can do a lot of things to lay a good foundation for giving full play to their imagination.
If parents want to improve their children’s hands-on ability, from my experience with baby, they should not do it in general, let the children do things blindly, but have to implement them systematically.
There are tips for cultivating children’s hands-on ability
1) Start with simple assembling games
First let children do some fine-type sports, which can effectively improve children’s hands-on ability And brain thinking ability, similar to assembling games can be used.
I used to try building blocks for my children. Jigsaw puzzles and other games, from flat to three-dimensional, I feel that children have indeed improved after a long time of contact, and they are also very focused in the process of playing.
2) Let the children start to try to do housework
In addition, it is necessary to start from the practical aspects when training children. It is necessary for children to try to do housework. Parents should not be reluctant to do the housework. Don’t feel that your child is not doing well and make yourself annoyed.
Children will gradually improve their independence in the process of doing housework, so they will have the ability to take care of themselves, and then they will be able to take good care of themselves and others.
3) Create conditions for improving children’s hands-on ability
If we want to really improve children’s hands-on ability, then we should pave the way for children, that is, work hard to help children create conditions and provide suitable environments and opportunities.
To stop children from doing things out of all kinds of worries is what we should avoid. It is okay for parents to worry about their children, but too much worry is a burden for children. Children who can’t afford to lose are difficult to stand up. Frustration education and correct criticism are compulsory courses in baby’s life.
Nowadays, children are smart and precocious, and live well. But I don’t know when, the children of this generation No longer like us in the past, we have strong patience in the face of setbacks. Now we can see that many children lose their lives because of a little setback, even such “trivial things” as parents’ scolding, failure in exams, etc. Can’t bear it, what makes the children look like this?
Many people think that such children are “losing I can’t afford it, and I don’t have the courage to start all over again. Some people think it’s difficult for such a “can’t afford to lose” children to stand up because their ability to withstand setbacks is too poor.
Indeed, life has never been smooth sailing. It is inevitable to encounter setbacks for children, too. A small thing that may be inconspicuous in the eyes of adults can crush children’s immature shoulders. Therefore, frustration education and correct criticism are compulsory courses in a child’s life.
The definition of frustration education:
In simple terms, Frustration education refers to the fact that children encounter setbacks when receiving education on the path of growth. Let the children work hard and find ways to overcome them, achieve a firmer grasp of knowledge, and at the same time enhance their own anti-frustration ability.
Frustration education is very important for every child. Successful people may not need to be too smart. Only those who are more capable of enduring frustration will have the hope of success. There is no Any shortcut can be taken, and the best way to educate is to stimulate children’s greater potential and let them learn to deal with setbacks.
So, should parents teach their children how to face setbacks?
1. Face setbacks.
Everyone has to face setbacks. After all, there are too many setbacks in life. The number of setbacks is not important. What matters is the attitude of children when they encounter setbacks. , If you get helpless and frustrated because of something, then such a person may always be a loser who can’t afford to lose.
The best way is to correct one’s own attitude first, so that children can understand setbacks in a correct way, and gain a lot of strength and knowledge in the process.
2, overcome frustration
< p>After the child learns to face setbacks, the next step is to find a way to overcome setbacks, that is, to solve problems. This process may be a bit difficult, but the child can experience the pleasure of success after overcoming, which will make the child more confident and stronger , The anti-frustration ability will naturally be higher. Parents should pay attention, must give more support and encouragement to their children during this period, help children through the most difficult period, and give them more confidence and strength.
3. Learn from the process
Mistakes and failures are not terrible. As long as children can learn knowledge in this process of resisting frustration, it is good. After all, people can make mistakes, but The same mistake cannot be made over and over again, so parents must also teach their children how to sum up experience in setbacks, and learn more abilities and knowledge from them. In this way, when children encounter the same setbacks again, not only will they not be afraid, but they will be better faced and resolved.
When parents educate their children about frustration, they also need to pay attention to some problems. They should not blindly set up some unprovoked frustrations for their children in order to improve their children’s ability to resist frustration. It’s useless to do it.
Frustration education is what every child should experience Yes, but the correct criticism is given by the parents. There are indeed problems in the way some parents criticize their children. This is also very harmful to the children. Only correct criticism can make the children grow up.
If parents want to learn to criticize their children correctly, they must pay attention to the following three points:
First, pay attention to the occasion
Some parents may think that everything about their children is given by their parents. It’s no big deal for the parents to say a few words. But parents also need to know that children also have self-esteem. If you directly scold your children in front of everyone, this is not a criticism but a humiliation for the children.
So when parents criticize their children, they must pay attention to the situation, and it is best to do it in private. Don’t let others see this process, and protect the children’s self-esteem.
Second, we must discuss the matter.
When parents face their children, they may more or less hate iron and steel. They obviously made a mistake, but parents can involve many problems, and this method will also hit the children. , Make the child feel that he can’t do anywhere.
If you want to criticize a child, you must discuss the matter, not too much, let alone denying all aspects of the child because of one thing.
No. 3, Don’t personally attack
Some parents have very bad tempers. When criticizing their children, they not only have a bad attitude, but also say very bad things, such as “Why are you so stupid? ! Don’t you have a brain?” Wait, this is equivalent to a personal attack on the child, hitting the child’s self-esteem and self-confidence.
Parents must pay attention when educating them. They must wait until they calm down before criticizing their children. Try not to be too rude, let alone conduct personal attacks.
In short, children cannot grow without their parents The correct education, if you want your children to be better, education must be in place, and don’t let your children become someone who can’t afford to lose because of a momentary negligence.