Does lateral incision during normal delivery have an impact on women’s later sexual life? The words of the three treasured fathers tell the truth.
Many pregnant women think that they can avoid getting a knife if they give birth, but it is not absolute. Because in some cases, an operation called “side cut” is also required for a normal delivery. Since it is an operation, of course, it will leave a wound.
Because the lateral incision is operated on the vagina, it will inevitably remind people of whether it will affect the future life of the husband and wife, which also causes some women or their husbands to reject the lateral incision operation.
Will the side cut have an impact on women’s later sexual life? This question, of course, could not be more appropriate to be answered by the husband of a parturient who has undergone lateral incision.
There are exactly three examples around me. Among them, two of the children born by the wife of Bao Dad two years ago were all given birth and had undergone lateral cuts, and the other was a child born at the end of last year, and they were also given regular births and had undergone lateral cuts. .
According to the first Bao Dad, he had sex with his wife for the first time two months after giving birth to her. He didn’t feel anything unusual at the time and asked his wife. The wife also said that the place she had sideways did not hurt.
Baby Dad thinks that this may be related to his wife’s recovery from confinement and the rapid growth of the wound.
In contrast, the postpartum sex life between the second father and his wife is not so moist. Although they had sex for the first time more than two months after their wife gave birth.
But somehow, my wife’s wounds have been very poorly healed, which led to the unharmonious sex life and the recurrence of the old wounds.
Seeing his wife’s situation, Bao’s father was also very distressed, so he endured it for more than two months, and it was only then that he gradually returned to his prenatal state.
The third treasure dad is relatively young, so he is more anxious in sexual affairs. Just after giving birth, he couldn’t bear to have a relationship with his wife. The first two times, according to his wife’s feedback, hurts a little.
But after observation, it was found that the wound healed well, and the sex life did not cause the wound to recur. After a few more attempts, the wound did not hurt at all, it may be completely healed.
Now the lives of the two of them have returned to their prenatal state, but with a cute and annoying baby.
Judging from the expressions of the three treasure fathers, the side cut will indeed affect the sex life at the very beginning, but the impact is also very limited.
Moreover, it mainly depends on the recovery state of the parturient. Good recovery, even if you have sex right after confinement.
Of course, it is not recommended to start having sex so early, because according to international standards, it is best to have sex for the first time after childbirth 42 days after giving birth.
Worried about sidecutting Late sex life? There is no need at all.
The side incision wound is very small and will not have an essential impact on sex life
Although the side incision is an opening in the vagina, the wound is very small. Basically heal at confinement.
As long as the wound is completely healed, it will be no different from normal skin, and of course it will not affect your sex life.
Unless the wound is healed poorly, or thick scars are formed, it will affect your sex life, but this is definitely related to improper care and can be avoided.
Not doing lateral resection may affect your sex life even more
Some people take it for granted that lateral resection will affect their sex life, so they are reluctant to perform lateral resection. In fact, this is more likely to affect sex life.
Because the parturient who originally needed lateral resection, if the lateral resection operation is not done, a large number of lacerations will inevitably occur during delivery. These wounds are irregular in shape and large in number.
Compared with lateral incision surgery, the wound is more difficult to heal, and the probability of postpartum infection is higher. So if it is just to avoid affecting sex life, it should be done side-cutting rather than repelling it.
Of course, as I said at the beginning, not all normal delivery women have to cut sideways. Many people give birth to their children without a single stroke. So which parturients need to be cut? Here is a brief introduction for everyone.
These situations may Side incision is needed, and mothers should know in advance
1. The head of the fetus is too large
If the head of the fetus is too large in the obstetric examination, it will be difficult to pass through the birth canal. Through the birth canal.
If the head of the fetus is larger, it is not a side cut but directly transferred to a cesarean section.
2. Inflammation or edema of the vagina leads to the inability to fully expand
If you happen to encounter symptoms such as vaginitis and edema when giving birth, the birth canal cannot be completely expanded, it is also necessary to do Lateral surgery.
So the parturient must pay attention to lower body hygiene during the third trimester, otherwise, once contracted symptoms, even if it is a normal delivery, she will have to be knifed.
3. Parturients suffering from heart disease and high blood pressure
For parturients suffering from serious diseases such as heart disease and high blood pressure, doctors will also give priority to lateral incision during the normal delivery. This is to shorten the second stage of labor as much as possible to reduce The burden faced by mothers.
Because compared with healthy mothers, this type of mother has a greater risk of having children. If the birth process is too long, the risk will increase exponentially.
Side cutting is not a monster, there is nothing to worry about, let alone rejection. Moreover, doctors will not perform lateral incisions on the parturient for no reason. When it is really done, it means it is necessary.
At this time, neither the mother nor her family members should resist. Children who love to kick the quilt at night may not be hot, but these types of situations are more frequent. Please pay attention.
I often encounter Bao’s mother that her child sleeps dishonestly and always likes to kick the quilt. When it comes to this matter, some mothers are anxious, while others don’t care, and even think that the baby is very cute. In fact, the reason why the baby kicks the quilt is very complicated. It may be simply because the bed is too hot, or it may be other reasons. These reasons are likely to be related to the baby’s health and are worthy of attention by the mothers.
There is a post-95s mother next to her. Since the beginning of last month, she has discovered that her son who has just turned one year old is always kicked frequently while sleeping. Although it had already entered spring and the temperature had risen, because the baby loved to kick the quilt, Bao Ma still had to turn on the air conditioner every day to prevent sleeping, which caused the electricity bill to exceed the standard for more than a month. But fortunately, the baby does not have a cold, and although the electricity bill has been spent a lot, it is not necessarily a waste.
However, this was only the beginning. After a while, Bao Ma gradually found that her son’s appetite had also diminished, and his figure had also lost a lot of weight. Worrying about the health of the child, Mother Bao took her son to the hospital for an examination. After the results came out, she was shocked. It turned out that the baby had been suffering from severe food accumulation in the past month.
After listening to her description, the doctor told her that in fact, the baby used to kick the quilt in sleep, which was related to food accumulation, but Bao’s mother was too careless and did not understand the relevant principles and did not pay enough attention. As a result, the baby’s condition was delayed until the appetite was significantly reduced and the figure was thin. From this case, it can be seen that even if it is just a very common “quilt kick”, there may be a huge danger hidden behind it. It can be seen that in the process of parenting, the mothers can’t care about it for a moment.
The baby sleeps at night Love kicking the quilt may not be pure heat, but these factors are at work.
Eating accumulation is an important reason why babies like to kick the quilt while sleeping. The so-called accumulation of food refers to a problem with the baby’s digestive system, which causes the food to be eaten not to be digested for a long time and remains in the body. The more serious the food accumulation, the more affected the baby’s mood, which in turn affects the quality of sleep, and kicking the quilt is an external manifestation of the baby’s irritability while sleeping. If the mother is not careful enough to treat it as if the baby is not sleeping honestly, or the bed is too hot, it will ignore the root cause of the baby’s food accumulation and will naturally delay the baby’s treatment.
Calcium deficiency is also an important factor in the baby’s sleep. The reason is that calcium deficiency will directly affect the level of the central nervous system, oppressing the cerebral cortex to cause excessive excitement, which stimulates the sweat glands to emit a large amount of sweat. Over time, the baby’s underwear and even the bed will become damp, which will bring it to the baby. Severe discomfort, and kicking is a subconscious reaction when the baby is affected by this feeling.
There is also a situation that may cause the baby to kick the quilt frequently, that is, encountering mosquito bites or excessive environmental noise while sleeping. In this case, even if the baby is already asleep, the emotions are easily mobilized by external interference factors. Once the emotions turn to irritability, they will kick the quilt as frequently as food.
In many cases, the above three factors are the real reasons why babies love to kick the quilt. As for the quilt is too hot, because it is easy to find, it is easier to control, but it is not the most important factor. But many mothers turned their priorities upside down. When they saw the baby kicking, they thought that the bed was too hot, so they took the wrong measures. Not only did not solve the problem, but they also delayed or even aggravated the baby’s condition.
Meet the baby To kick the quilt, don’t be confused anymore.
If you find that your baby loves to kick the quilt in your life, what should the moms do? First of all, Bao Ma needs to check the temperature in the quilt. If it is overheated, change a thinner quilt or open a corner of the quilt to let the heat in the quilt dissipate. If it improves after a period of time, then It means that it is simply too hot to cause the baby to kick the quilt. If the situation does not improve, the next step should be taken.
After confirming that the bed is not too hot, it is necessary to consider whether it is due to environmental factors, such as whether there are mosquitoes and whether the noise is too loud. After these factors are resolved, observe the baby’s sleep state. If there is still kicking the bed Phenomenon, you can consider the accumulation of food or calcium deficiency. However, these two situations cannot be solved overnight, and they need to be treated or treated in the next period of time. The best and safest way is to take the child to the hospital for a targeted examination, adjust the diet for food accumulation, and supplement calcium for calcium deficiency. As long as the root cause is solved, the baby will naturally not go to bed frequently. Kicked the quilt.
Baby moms must always remember that quilt kicking is only a superficiality, and the problems reflected behind it are truly noteworthy. If the mothers do not have such awareness, but simply think that the baby is too hot, it may not only cause the baby to catch cold and freeze, it may also delay food accumulation or calcium deficiency and other related diseases, which will also cause serious damage to the baby’s physical development. Negative impact.